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Decide what to work on first

A short three-stage screen across roughly fifty life areas. About 30 minutes for all three, or skip ahead to the one you want.

Why three stages – the research and thinking behind this survey

There is no single validated academic framework for prioritising across all of personal life. The closest analogues each capture part of the picture.

  • Maslow's hierarchy (1943) is widely cited but empirically weak. Tay and Diener (2011) showed across 123 countries that needs are pursued in parallel, not sequence. Not used here.
  • Theory of Constraints (Goldratt, 1984), drawn from operations management, holds that a system's output is gated by its weakest critical link. Applied to life, this means identifying and addressing the binding constraint before optimising elsewhere.
  • Self-Determination Theory (Deci and Ryan, 2000) identifies three core psychological needs – autonomy, competence, and relatedness – alongside physical needs. Better supported than Maslow.
  • The Wheel of Life, a coaching tool, asks you to self-rate eight to ten areas and work on the lowest. Intuitive but limited by poor self-assessment.
  • ITN (Importance, Tractability, Neglectedness), developed by effective altruists for cause selection, adapts reasonably to personal areas.
  • Hedonic adaptation research (Lyubomirsky and others) shows that relationships, autonomy, meaning, and mastery produce lasting wellbeing returns. Income beyond roughly $75,000–100,000 household and most possessions adapt away (Killingsworth, 2021).

This survey combines these into a three-stage approach: triage acute issues first, then fundamentals where there are significant gaps, then prioritise across remaining areas. The values input draws on Schwartz's theory of basic human values (validated across 80+ countries); the constraint identification draws on Theory of Constraints.

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This survey contains three components. You can do them all together, or skip to the survey most relevant for you.

1
Triage
Checks for acute issues – mental health, safety, financial distress, addiction, recent loss, active legal action – that warrant attention before broader optimisation.
12 questions, about 5 minutes
2
Fundamentals
Checks six upstream areas with broad cross-domain effects: sleep, mental wellbeing, foundational finances, social connection, physical activity, and care responsibilities.
15 questions, about 5 minutes
3
Focus area
Identifies a single binding life area to focus on next, based on what you value and where you currently feel constrained. Outputs one focus area with a stated reason, plus two named successors.
21 values items + 4 constraint pages, about 20 minutes